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Are You Ready To Start Homeschooling? Do This First

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Are You Ready To Start Homeschooling? Do This First

How do you start homeschooling? If I had a dime for every time, I heard that question. As a homeschool consultant, I have witnessed many homeschool families overwhelmed by the process of beginning to homeschool.

Most of us decide to start homeschooling and have no idea what the next steps should be. We easily can get overwhelmed with all of the information out there too.

Or we might want to start homeschooling but feel that we aren’t equipped to do so. Maybe we announced to our extended family that we want to begin this homeschooling journey only to be ridiculed into fear.

I am here to tell you; it can be done. YOU can do it, and it can all come together beautifully.

Are you ready to start homeschooling? Here are 5 important things that you should do first! #homeschool #homeschooling #starthomeschooling

5 Basic Steps to Start Homeschooling

Step 1: PRAYER.

Let the Lord guide you, He CAN and WILL equip you! Far better than you can imagine, that I can promise you. Pray for anyone that may not be encouraging to you about your new plan to homeschool; God can manage that situation for you. Your confidence is found in Christ, not what others think you can accomplish. Do not fear.

Praying Before Planning for Your Homeschool

Step 2: Remember, once you begin this journey, it is precisely that; a journey!

So don’t try to overdo it, and over accomplish anything in your 1st year. It took me a few years (or more) before I became confident in what I was doing. That is the truth. I learned so much over the 1st few years, and we have a fantastic rhythm going now. I would do it all over again – even all my mistakes if it got me right here again. Give yourself grace as you learn what works for you.

Step 3: DO NOT do it alone.

Find your tribe. Yep, you need homeschooling support. You need a homeschool friend, family member, or a woman from your church. Find someone who has slightly older kids or graduated a child so that you get some much-needed support and advice from someone who has done it.

Many times I see moms friend the other moms who just began homeschooling herself. That is wonderful of course, but don’t forget she may not have a lot of experience yet either. So it is important to friend moms in all stages of homeschooling.

Step 4: You need to find the answers to a few questions before you begin.

  • How does your child learn best? Is he/she visual, auditory, kinesthetic? Determining learning styles will help when choosing curriculum. You want them to be engaged, so if you know exactly how they learn best and process information – you can select books, curricula, and make a homeschool plan tailored specifically for each individual child. Isn’t that cool? No better education than one perfectly planned by the momma that knows them best. Homeschooling can also be a wise choice if you have a dyslexic child or a child with special needs. A customized homeschool plan might be a perfect fit.
  • What is your budget? Narrow down your homeschool budget and make a list of all the things you will need to get started. Notice I said NEED. Over the years I have made a lot of purchases that once I looked back on, we didn’t need that or sometimes never even used it. So don’t go overboard, you can always start and see what you need as you go along. Don’t forget supplies for science experiments or hands-on projects, books/readers, manipulatives, whatever you need through the year or semester depending on how far you choose to plan.
  • What style of schooling most interests you and your child? Classic approach, Charlotte Mason, Unschooling, Unit Studies, etc.? Don’t just choose what works for you. Think about you meshing with the style of teaching it as well as your child meshing with the learning side. I have made this mistake a few times on curriculum. You need to remember that if the curriculum doesn’t work after a while, it’s ok to switch to what will work mid-year, or anytime. That is another perk of homeschooling. If it isn’t working, change it. It may take a few tries before you find the perfect fit for you both. You may also be choosing a few different things for different children based on age and learning styles.
  • Are you going to buy curriculum, “school in a box,” or pull from various sources? This one can take some research. Read up on as much as you can, talk to your veteran homeschool moms, read reviews, and make a choice you feel most comfortable with. I began homeschooling one way and have ended up years later doing it another way. It’s natural to evolve and grow into new styles and ways of thinking.
  • What type of schedule or routine do you want to try? Kids thrive on routines and knowing what to expect. You don’t need to set up “school at home” 8am-3pm. Another perk of homeschooling is schooling when it works best for YOUR family. You can have a routine that works with the flow of your typical day. Plan what days of the week you will school and BE FLEXIBLE. Things will change, someone will get sick, and it’s OK. Move things around, or take the needed time off.

Step 5: Relax & Enjoy.

Have fun with your kids; homeschooling is a blessing. I made the mistake of worrying so much about checking off the boxes and getting our “work” done that I forgot to have fun! Make memories, make mistakes & use them as teachable lessons and opportunities for character building. We homeschool for all the reasons we quickly forget. Always keep in mind why you are homeschooling. Whatever your reason, keeping God at the center of your school is essential. So enjoy the blessings in front of you every morning. He’s got you friend!

Isaiah 55:9 NIV

“As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”

I know it can be scary, overwhelming, and you might feel a little lost; please don’t. Know that me and almost every mom I ever met through homeschooling – at some point felt the same way. You can do this, and there is a beautiful journey ahead of you.

A journey that God already has planned out for you and your precious kiddos. Enjoy the ride.

Here are a few books with fantastic encouragement, tips, and Christian homeschool philosophies that I think are worthwhile reads.

Empower yourself with as much knowledge as possible. These books come from a place of encouragement, grace, and a lot of wisdom.

You can also see the top questions about homeschooling answered from the experts here. 

I created a workbook to help get you started with ease and set a strong foundation for your homeschool from the start. The Home Education Road Map

I also offer one on one coaching to help get you on the path to homeschooling success. Don’t waste time struggling when you can start enjoying home educating now, let’s chat. 


  1. Brandy

    Hello, we are considering homeschooling our 13 year old son since his father was diagnosed with stage 3b lung cancer and we have to travel out of state for the best treatments. Looking for any help and suggestions…pros/cons? and I am also concerned with him not having enough social time with kids his age with homeschooling and traveling. Please help!

  2. Lauryn

    Hi! My daughter just began first grade, she is dyslexic and is having a horrid time trying to keep up with reading. She flies through math, and hates hates hates reading.. her school has just adopted the common core curriculum and we already hate it. Yes I said hate. They have her doing some RIDICULOUS math and she is just now in first flipping grade. So. I’m seriously looking into homeschooling her, for both her sanity and my own haha. Do you have any tips and advice for us?

    1. Hi Lauryn,

      I am so sorry you guys are experiencing this, unfortunately I talk to families almost every day in similar situations with the public school system. I am going to send you a PM 😉

  3. Jessica

    I’m Jessica. I’m looking into homeschooling my 7 kiddos… I’m currently going through treatments with Cervical Cancer and my fiance just got a job thank God; and this would be easier i think because I don’t have to worry about getting right up so early in the morning to get them to school by foot. I don’t have to worry about how to get them home everyday. Days I have treatment I’m not stressed into having to battle with that or trying to get them for other reasons. Any advice or statement towards my choosing of this teaching?

    1. Hi Jessica,
      Thanks for reaching out to us. Looks like your circumstances are surely challenging, my thoughts are with you. That is one of the wonderful benefits of homeschooling, flexibility. You will quickly see that homeschooling is just an extension of your home and lifestyle. The benefits are huge, the only advice I can give is to customize your homeschool to your children and do what feels comfortable and natural. You want to eliminate stressors and create a peaceful environment that encourages a love of learning. If you need further assistance we offer a course to get your homeschool set up, and it is currently on Amazon at a heavily discounted rate. I recommend the course to get you started if you have never homeschooled before. If you have any questions or would like assistance, please reach out to

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